Fire and Ice

The evening is only for people who have experience attending sensual play parties in the past and who know the etiquettes of consent, boundaries and personal and group safety.

If you have never been to an event like this before, this is not an event for you.

The hosts will also be engaging in play and will not be watching the space the whole time. If you attend, you must be able to take responsibility for yourself in the space and for the interactions you engage in. If people complain that they feel uncomfortable around you, we will ask you to leave.

‍Please do not make us non-consensually into your disciplinarian.

Over 18 only, of course.

• You are fully aware of the new sexual consent laws in New South Wales.

• You maintain the privacy and confidentiality of all attendees.

• You are not under the influence of alcohol or any other intoxicant in the space without informing the people you interact with.

• You respect your own and other people’s “no”

• You learn about and communicate your boundaries with the people you interact with.

Please arrive by 7:30pm so we can all start together on time.

Elegant, sexy or devious. No t-shirts and jeans. This party is only for people with prior experience of play parties and understand what is appropriate dress.

Some drinks and snacks will be provided. The venue has asked that there be no alcohol, so alcohol is not permitted. All drugs impact our ability to give consent.

Peter Banki, friends and lovers

Recommended Donation $50 to cover the venue hire, snacks and transport of props. This is a social event that we are doing for our own pleasure.